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Why Do People Like BDSM?

A lot of people have a misconception that BDSM is a coping mechanism for unhealthy relationships or trauma. But, this study found that while BDSM interests may be related to…

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How to Make Your Boobs Smaller

If you’re a woman with large breasts, your feelings about their size may change over time. For instance, their composition can change after a pregnancy, or after you start working…

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What is CBT in BDSM?

Some people would recoil at the thought of someone hurting their penises and testicles but others find a specific pleasure in it. Cock and ball torture is a popular form…

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Why Do I Pee When I Orgasm?

Women who experience “pee-gasm” – urinating during sexual arousal or orgasm – shouldn’t feel ashamed. But they should find alternative ways to fulfill this urge without risking damage to their…

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What is CNC in BDSM?

Whether you’re interested in exploring consensual non-consentual kink or already play in this area, there are some things to keep in mind. Some people find that CNC helps them work…

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What to Use For a Dildo

Fortunately, there are plenty of body-safe materials to choose from. Glass, stone, and silicone are common choices for dildos. You’ll also need a good mold, like this quick-set alginate by…

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What is a BDSM Relationship?

Dominant/submissive relationships are the heart of BDSM. It’s important that both parties are clear about their preferences, limits and sensitivities during play. This is usually negotiated before a scene begins….

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What is an Anal Orgasm?

Whether using their own finger, a sex toy, or a penis, many cis and trans people report finding anal play pleasurable. In fact, stimulating the anus can be more intense…

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Best G Spot Sex Toys

You can get a lot of stimulation by stroking your vulva, but g spot vibrations are especially orgasmic. These vibrators have a special shape and internal shaft that target your…

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What Does Rigger Mean in BDSM?

Rigger kink is an exciting and sensual form of BDSM bondage play. It can be psychologically and sexually arousing for both dominant and submissive partners. To ensure a safe scene,…

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