Vanilla sex has received a bad rap in the BDSM community. It’s easy to see why, as it can be a boring flavor among all the other options. But, it…
What is a Bull in BDSM?
Cuckolding is a consensual fetish that falls under the BDSM umbrella. It involves one partner – a hotwife or cuckoldress – indulging in sexual activity with another man. This can…
How to Get Into BDSM
A LOT of people get turned on by the idea of being spanked, fucked, blindfolded and otherwise abused during a BDSM scene. But there’s more to BDSM than rough sex….
What is Breeding in BDSM?
Those who play breeding kinks can find arousal from the thought of having unprotected sex and allowing someone else’s cum to enter their body. However, if the goal is not…
Why Do People Like BDSM?
A lot of people have a misconception that BDSM is a coping mechanism for unhealthy relationships or trauma. But, this study found that while BDSM interests may be related to…
What is CBT in BDSM?
Some people would recoil at the thought of someone hurting their penises and testicles but others find a specific pleasure in it. Cock and ball torture is a popular form…
What is CNC in BDSM?
Whether you’re interested in exploring consensual non-consentual kink or already play in this area, there are some things to keep in mind. Some people find that CNC helps them work…
What is a BDSM Relationship?
Dominant/submissive relationships are the heart of BDSM. It’s important that both parties are clear about their preferences, limits and sensitivities during play. This is usually negotiated before a scene begins….
What Does Rigger Mean in BDSM?
Rigger kink is an exciting and sensual form of BDSM bondage play. It can be psychologically and sexually arousing for both dominant and submissive partners. To ensure a safe scene,…
Aftercare in BDSM
Aftercare in bdsm revolves around complimenting your partner and telling them how good they did during the scene. A few words of affirmation can go a long way for a…
What is a Munch?
When new people enter the kink scene, they are often advised to go to a munch. A munch is a casual social gathering of kink-interested people who meet in public…
What is a Rope Bunny BDSM?
Rope bunnies are submissive lovers who enjoy being restrained. They are often aroused by the ritual of shibari bondage, by the sensations of being restrained, or by giving up control…
Why Do Women Like BDSM?
It’s hard to accurately measure the exact percentage of women who are into BDSM or any other kink. But we can get some idea of it by looking at a…